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December 05, 2011

A Guide To The Single Hearted Out There On The Internet!

I'm single, and you know what, I'm happy about it. Ill tell you why.
There's times when I don't care, this is just the status I hold. There's other times that I feel like I need someone there. Admit, this is how you all feel. 

The horrible truth is, you don't NEED anyone, even though this is how you feel.
You have to accept the fact that your still single, and improve on yourself. I tell you this because you can't be happy in a relationship until you are happy with yourself!
Now my worst trait is that I'm too nice... even how ridiculous this sounds it's a leading factor to not having a girlfriend, sadly.
Now you can still be Nice, and land a great girl! 
You just have to be smart, and be patient.

This picture is basically true, you don't want bitches - Trust me on this.
There's still nice girls out there. With a lot of girls it's hard to tell whether they are going to turn on you or not, and That, my friend, you have to get out there and date to determine if this girl is going to be the right one, because sometimes we are too nice and just let it happen.
Don't!
Just don't get me wrong as well! You still have to give off a certain vibe, that physical attractiveness attribute. You don't have to be a jerk to accomplish this. To acquire this vibe, you have to improve your diet and workout. Become bigger. You can be toned...or even buff and still be nice. A girl is looking for someone to support them, to protect them.
This chart pretty much explains the direction you need to take
us nice guy's go up the mental attractiveness line
while the physical progression stays still.
This is basically being "friend zoned", a place where you don't want to be!
That's where diet exercise comes in!

Yay! (not really) marketing sometimes makes it sound complicated to be honest, but ill tell all you really need. 
A great protein intake for one,  Eating protein helps building and maintaining muscle. good carbs for fuel. Fruits & greens contain vitamins & minerals, but Most of the vitamins you can get from an RX in pill form or even Gummy bear shaped, (not recommended if you plan to have girls where you keep them). Last but not least, you need to lift weights! Create a schedule and be organized.
For those of you a little above thin, you should also include aerobic exercise to burn it off as well.

One more thing though
Confidence!
Now don't get frightened by that word, because you can also fake that! Be careful not to fake it for too long, just until you are comfortable to let down that shield. Girls LOVE confidence!
There's one more mistake though that we all make, we sometimes are just plain out Beta male, which is pretty much another word for nice, just with the extent that your a pushover basically, one more picture to help.
Follow these steps, get out there, go to a few bars, work, get out of your house!
Soon you will be on the road to having an Amazing relationship! Followed by love, and maybe someday marriage :3

Once you've reached the final stage, Never let her go. Never let yourself go.

Thank you for reading!

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